PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-17 21:46:11 +0000 UTC]

It has. How's it going?

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-17 22:04:56 +0000 UTC]

its been better.. but im surviving

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-18 19:50:22 +0000 UTC]

Same here. What's the matter though?

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-18 20:48:28 +0000 UTC]

well, my family is in a big fight right now and i'm probably not going to see my niece for a long time because of it.

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-20 00:21:45 +0000 UTC]

A fight? If you don't mind me asking, what is it about? And why won't you be able to see your niece?

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-20 15:49:38 +0000 UTC]

The fight was about how my parents weren't home when my sister went to drop my niece off, so apparently my parents never follow up with what we say we're going to do and so my sister slams the door and leaves. i'm 16, why couldn't she leave Alania (my niece) with me? they were going to be right back. i even told her that. she said "don't count on ever seeing Alaina for a while." and left.
so anyways, my parents got upset and now Randy (my sister soon to be husband) is saying how he is ashamed of us and embarrassed to be related to us because we apparently don't pay our bills ( which we DO )

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-20 23:47:56 +0000 UTC]

I don't understand how that could be a problem at all. Your sister should know that, at 16, you should be fully capable of looking after your niece for an hour or so. My brother is 14 and looks after completely unrelated 5 year olds and nothing bad happened.

I know I'm only getting one side of the story, but it sounds like your sister is just looking for a conflict of some kind. Or this some left over animosity from a previous, recent fight between your parents, your sister and -apparently- Randy, that you don't know about.

From my perspective, this fight sounds kind of pointless, over exaggerated, easily avoidable and irritating. I can only kinda relate to what it must feel like to be in the middle of it, I don't have any nieces.

Aside from all of that, why would she not you see Alaina when you had nothing to do with the -pointless- fight anyway?

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-21 04:45:11 +0000 UTC]

i know. i think they are just trying to find a fight. i don't get why they could gt so upset so easily.

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-21 22:36:38 +0000 UTC]

Such fights rarely make sense. Maybe there's a reason they are so on edge?

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-22 02:19:35 +0000 UTC]

i have no idea. but then not to long later, my sister read my yaoi Role Play D: it was horrable. she told my mom too... she thinks im a freak now. she thinks i should go to rehab because she thinks its an addiction.

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-22 03:02:22 +0000 UTC]

How did she get it? Did she break into your computer or something?

And why would they think you're a freak? There are plenty of men who drool over the sight of two women romantically together, even though neither gay woman would want anything to do with them. Yaoi is the same situation in reverse.

And why the hell would they send you to REHAB over YAOI!? Tell them if they don't like it, don't think about it, but under no circumstances should they berate you over it.

It's almost like they are emotionally taxed and taking it out on you... Are you going to be okay?

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-22 21:06:56 +0000 UTC]

she found out because i carelessly left my account open and she got on, seeing my messages.

i said the same thing to my mom but she said "just because everyone is doing it dosn't make it right" i was like holy shit are you seriously going to pull that.

im not sure if im going to be okay, because if my dad inds out i seriously will loose it. the world will lertterly end for me. he's a preacher and he's so strict on things like this...if it comes down to it i might have to just take my life because i can't have my dad knowing. i would be better off dead than alive if he found out.

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-23 03:32:58 +0000 UTC]

She looked through it because you left it open? That in itself is an invasion of privacy. My brother, Corey, leaves his Facebook, E-mail, etc. open all the time and the only action that occurs to me is to close it. I hate when people bother my things, so I don't bother the things of others.

"Just because everyone is doing it, doesn't make it right" is a stock phrase that roughly 80% of parents have ONLY because when they where your and my age(s), they were told the same thing, and chances are they rolled their eyes and did whatever anyways. They forget that just because they are parents now , doesn't mean that every hard-headed, stupid, irresponsible thing they did before (ie. drinking, drugs, drunk driving, casual sex or any combo of those plus some other things >.>...) has NOT been magically erased just because you don't know their past in detail.

Unfortunately, having a Preacher (or very religious person) as a friend, relative, is hard... Having a Preacher for a FATHER must be pure hell on earth, and I praise you for making it this far. If you're a "Daddy's Girl", it gets easier. Just cry really hard and say, "I was pressured into it by Kids at school! I know I shouldn't let them dictate my actions more so than God and now that I know the error of my ways, I won't ever... Blah." Just adjust to your style and change your computer.

Also, crossing your fingers and hope he doesn't find out works, too...

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-26 00:20:50 +0000 UTC]

thats what i said to my mom. when i find my dads or her account up, i don't go through her stuff, so why should she go through mine?


I'm hoping he never finds out O___O im not to good at the daddys girl thing..

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-10-29 13:32:31 +0000 UTC]

She feels she can do that because she's your mother. In her mind, snooping is necessary to her mission of making sure you aren't doing drugs or joining a cult. That's the way a mother thinks at times, it doesn't make much sense. When parents are worried, they do things. Sometimes 'worried' morphs into 'controlling'. Sometimes it's on purpose, sometimes not. Sounds stupid, I know, but it depends on the parents and I don't know your parents so...

As far as your dad goes I'll cross my fingers for you. In the meantime, might I suggest password protecting your computer or user on the family computer. Also fiddling with the settings so that more than 2 minutes away from the computer locks it automatically comes in handy, too. It's what I do, and I also lock certain files and when I started writing fanfiction, I locked it. But still, lets just hope he doesn't find out.

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TyceEverclark In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-10-30 22:02:49 +0000 UTC]

that's true.

and that's a good idea. maybe i'll try that.

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PlayingWithLife In reply to TyceEverclark [2012-11-14 10:16:08 +0000 UTC]

Parents can overreact sometimes. Or a lot. My mother, personally, thinks that one day the local police are going to show up at her door because I've dismantled someone's car or caused it explode just for the lulz.

Locking your comp up tight REALLY helps, especially when you have lots of free time to add layers and layers of security.

By the way, the late reply was the result of a hectic two weeks. Sorry. My mother had a concussion, so I was in charge of the cooking, cleaning and washing. And then somehow , three days ago, she re-concussioned (is that a word ) herself. I don't even know how that was possible... >.>

Has the weird fight between your sister, Randy and your parents gotten any better or are you still caught up in their power-struggle?

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PlayingWithLife In reply to Bloodthirstycats77 [2012-08-20 21:11:26 +0000 UTC]

If you mean for the watch, no problem. That pencil through your wrist was awesome... and a good way to go home early !

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Bloodthirstycats77 In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-08-20 21:13:41 +0000 UTC]

Sorry yes i meant the watch. Thank you! XD lol

your icon.... is awesome

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PlayingWithLife In reply to maugryph [2012-08-09 02:30:18 +0000 UTC]

...I have no idea what you're talking about...

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PlayingWithLife In reply to Berift [2012-08-09 02:28:45 +0000 UTC]

Thanks. My icon went from 'Fuck Yeah' to 'Fuck you'.

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Berift In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-08-09 07:47:27 +0000 UTC]

That's okay. Weirdly enough it reminds me of somebody I used to know!

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PlayingWithLife In reply to ValosalRaptor2 [2012-08-09 02:17:33 +0000 UTC]

Thanks!

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ValosalRaptor2 In reply to PlayingWithLife [2012-08-09 02:30:02 +0000 UTC]

Yw lol

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Santelle In reply to Santelle [2012-07-07 16:18:30 +0000 UTC]

And thanks for watching It means a lot for me

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