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"FAT. YOU ARE FAT. YOU'RE NOT AS SKINNY AS THOSE OTHERS GIRLS. YOU'RE NOT EVEN AS SKINNY AS YOUR BEST FRIEND. WHY DO YOU THINK BOYS LIKE HER AND NOT YOU? IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT SKINNY ENOUGH."Well, a cut here, and a slice there, then maybe, just maybe, I'll be beautiful...
My Freaky Darlings,
Body image. Society's idea of a body image nowadays sickens me. They make girls who are of normal weight feel fat just because we can't fit into a size 4 pair of pants (or even smaller than that). They push being skinny, tan, and tall. Women feel too much pressure to look pretty for all others, for fear of being judged. Even men have body image pushed onto them.
You are Beautiful just the way you are.
-Blackbird
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Comments: 108
GhostOfTheEmptyGrave [2015-04-13 20:05:55 +0000 UTC]
There's nothing else I can do. Because you're beautiful already
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TheTooginator [2014-09-01 07:25:24 +0000 UTC]
Back in college, I would have looked at you and thought "goddess". I think guys are reluctant so say who they are attracted to, unless they feel the girl is blonde, skinny, tan and "girly" because other guys have no problem being harsh about this (and I mean HARSH). Fortunately, I didn't give a damn what other guys thought. Inevitably, these very same guys would develope massive crushes on an "unconventional" girl. I never felt the need to question who THEY were attracted to.
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grei-eba [2013-06-24 17:47:04 +0000 UTC]
If you're fat, we're fucked. You have perfect body shape
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Gragonwings [2012-12-30 23:35:23 +0000 UTC]
I fell like this all the time.... My sister is natural skin, and i'm built bigger than her anyway. But i'm still bigger and that's the point. i just fell really bad about myself around her. She has all these guy friends... and like it's written above, sometimes i think that why.
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BlackFaeBird In reply to Gragonwings [2012-12-31 01:59:26 +0000 UTC]
you're beautiful in your own way, you truly are
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XOBillieMCRart [2012-12-26 03:25:29 +0000 UTC]
I am so thankful for ppl like you <3 I have a pretty difrent type of body. I am a girl and all what that means but my body is very much more smilar to how a boy shod look. I am so happy for ppl like you that have absolutly right and i wish more ppl could be like you <3 And i think you are beautiful <3 really i serusly donΒ΄t care how ppl looks in body shape i always watch for there eyes. it is just who i am. All ppl has something you can love if it is what you are looking for
and oj.. sorry now i was talking away <3 i just feel very much respect and love for ppl like you <3
thanks so much <3 and merry christmas
xoxo
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BlackFaeBird In reply to XOBillieMCRart [2012-12-31 01:59:05 +0000 UTC]
thank you so much for all of that it means so much
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XOBillieMCRart In reply to BlackFaeBird [2013-01-02 18:08:17 +0000 UTC]
very welcome<3<3
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BlackFaeBird In reply to Huberstein [2012-09-11 00:37:20 +0000 UTC]
I am ticklish in most of those spots XD
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miku1212 [2012-09-03 19:27:11 +0000 UTC]
dont worry ive went trought the same thing
but im nutall skinny i wish i had what u have
ost ppl think im sick..
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BlackFaeBird In reply to miku1212 [2012-09-08 17:49:31 +0000 UTC]
you're beautiful in your own way
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miku1212 In reply to BlackFaeBird [2012-09-08 18:07:45 +0000 UTC]
yea thanks
and so are u love
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BlackCatWhiteWolf [2012-07-27 01:07:46 +0000 UTC]
I am 163 lbs., and I'm pretty sure it's mainly muscle, but when I walk 5-6 parts of me move. I often feel fat because most (all) of my friends are thin. :/ I dunno where I'm getting at, I just want to talk.
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BlackFaeBird In reply to BlackCatWhiteWolf [2012-08-15 01:15:57 +0000 UTC]
I'm sure you still look great (:
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lesgle [2012-07-19 04:55:11 +0000 UTC]
-.-
I'm naturally skinny,
Some reason people at my school think its GREAT that I can count my ribs.
You have a great body , I wish I had it.
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BlackFaeBird In reply to lesgle [2012-07-19 14:30:06 +0000 UTC]
you're still beautiful
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lesgle In reply to BlackFaeBird [2012-07-19 20:34:16 +0000 UTC]
Thanks. You are to.
You seem like a nice person.
I love the things your doing.
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lesgle In reply to BlackFaeBird [2012-08-16 00:05:26 +0000 UTC]
Of course!
And it's all the truth.
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77ImaHuman77 [2012-06-19 11:32:58 +0000 UTC]
I'm a guy and also have a similar body type to yours, I am not thin but I'm also not fat and quite honestly I have never felt fat, I really do not understand how women pressure themselves to be super thin, most guys do not find super thin girls attractive, you have a nice body, you should not worry about how society views you.
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BlackCatWhiteWolf In reply to 77ImaHuman77 [2012-07-27 01:04:50 +0000 UTC]
I feel better now
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Blusaga [2012-03-30 08:37:15 +0000 UTC]
It's grate of you to throw such an expression on the face of ugly society
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WizardOfUnseen [2012-03-28 15:19:47 +0000 UTC]
This is a really powerful photo my friend.It is hard to love yourself when society says you are not perfect,and that you are something ugly and to be ignored.Awesome work.
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WizardOfUnseen In reply to BlackFaeBird [2012-04-02 01:25:50 +0000 UTC]
You are welcome.
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intellawolf [2012-03-28 09:54:16 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much for posting this.
It gives a really strong message that many people can identify with and can take to heart.
Thank you for giving me the inspiration to keep living with a smile.
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abesgoldenfriend [2012-03-26 11:54:54 +0000 UTC]
I like this. I'm overwight but I'm really nice most of the time. I always thought that the reason boys don't like me is because i'm not thin.
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BlackFaeBird In reply to abesgoldenfriend [2012-03-26 21:20:42 +0000 UTC]
you're beautiful the way you are
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abesgoldenfriend In reply to BlackFaeBird [2012-03-26 21:22:31 +0000 UTC]
Its hard to remember that.
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BlackFaeBird In reply to abesgoldenfriend [2012-03-26 21:35:40 +0000 UTC]
you should write it on a piece of paper and tape it to your mirror to remind yourself every time you look that you are beautiful no matter what any boy could think of you.
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abesgoldenfriend In reply to BlackFaeBird [2012-03-26 21:53:38 +0000 UTC]
thats a good idea. I probly wont though. I have enough stuff on my mirror as it is, its aready drawn on so I don't forget my house key, and I don't have tape. I really should just stop complaining.
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BlackFaeBird In reply to abesgoldenfriend [2012-04-02 01:13:46 +0000 UTC]
oh you're not complaining, it's quite all right
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Rein-Tma [2012-03-25 13:50:35 +0000 UTC]
I hate it when people say that 'you aren't skinny enough', why does it matter what other people think of you? As long as you think of yourself as beautiful, you are. My best friend is slightly over weight, but she is more beautiful than I could ever be, even if I am thin. It's what's on the inside that counts.
I don't know you, but you are beautiful, keep on shining.
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nickie083100 [2012-03-25 08:16:12 +0000 UTC]
If only my mom was like that, saying I'm beautiful just they way I am, but she says I'm getting fat. I say it's better then being anorexic. Thanks to you, I feel pretty again.
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BlackFaeBird In reply to nickie083100 [2012-03-26 01:07:29 +0000 UTC]
I'm sure you are absolutely beautiful
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nickie083100 In reply to BlackFaeBird [2012-03-26 12:35:35 +0000 UTC]
:,) so kind, thank you~!
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Oshiruko [2012-03-24 22:00:20 +0000 UTC]
WhatΒ΄s wrong with not being super skinny? IΒ΄m not as skinny and feminine in build as the other girls, but thatΒ΄s okay with me. I mean, why would I want to look like that? IΒ΄m sportive, so IΒ΄m rather muscular and boyish, but who cares? I think that as long as you like the way you look, you donΒ΄t have to care about other girls. Or anyone else. Because happiness makes you more beautiful than being skinny could.
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