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Published: 2004-01-02 10:40:35 +0000 UTC; Views: 72; Favourites: 0; Downloads: 14
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Description                 Sadly, no one seems to remember what it was like to fail. We all tend to forget the things that make us who we are. We do not appreciate enough the trivial events that lead towards our demise. It is those things that we should hold dearest in our hearts. The pain that drives one man to succeed, even though he has failed so miserably many times. Perseverance is the key to success, in my opinion.

Failure is not an option. That is bullshit. No one can tell me that they would be the same person as they are now without failure. You learn from your mistakes. Sadly, you have to go through the pain and anguish of defeat, but in the end, you learn and become a “better” person. If you were not to have those things, you would not strive to be something more, more or less a stalemate.

The biggest thing that I can think of that drives someone to do what he/she does, is love. Love is the thing a human craves the most in their lifetimes. Sadly, it is the one thing that makes someone the most depressed. But, without the pain and defeat, you would not strive to get that “love” that you want so very bad. I feel that love is the very thing that makes a person feel happy while in turn makes them feel very sad, also. Love is so weird.

But, do not think that I hate love. Love is a very good thing, it makes you learn. You learn how to react in certain situations, and you learn a completely new side to your own self. I hate how some people dread being in love. Why hate the very thing that can make you become “better”?

Maybe it is the fact that you are scared? Being scared is a big thing, I tend to be scared for most of my life. Being worried just makes you nervous, and being nervous is something that makes you fail. Does that mean love can make you fail? That’s something to ponder over.

No one seems to realize that without your past experiences you only sit in a slumber without knowing what you could be. Love can make you become something you had no intention of being whatsoever. But, that is not a bad thing. Love lets you learn more about yourself. It lets you know more about yourself, yet still giving you that extra kick in the ass to do something more. Whatever that is, that is your own decision or fate.
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