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Description This is my bf That is, my best friend, Florian. He wouldn't let me take a pic with him, but he said he'd settle for a portrait. He's going through a tough time right now, and I'm trying my hardest to help him get through everything. He's really sweet and kind and he definitely does NOT deserve to go through what his family is doing.

Please, anyone who reads this, if you ever have children (or even if you already have children) love them unconditionally with all of your heart. They may not grow up to what you want them to be, but if they did, what fun would that be? What would you learn from parenting? You'd be stuck as you are, in a perfectly boring loop.
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Comments: 63

DannyFields In reply to ??? [2012-07-17 03:23:02 +0000 UTC]

He is pretty cute isn't he?

Aww! Thank you so much! I always think I'm the lucky one though. He's really inspiring.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-17 06:14:24 +0000 UTC]

Oh you are both lucky but he is more (; I think every gay in the world wants a fabulos boyfriend like you ^^

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-18 03:58:43 +0000 UTC]

You flatter me too much! Really, that's so sweet of you to say!

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-18 07:12:21 +0000 UTC]

Oh I thanks,you are so kind! but if people say I am too sweet why can't I find a boyfriend?I am so stupid and ugly

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-19 02:39:42 +0000 UTC]

You are not! Idk maybe it could be because you're shy. Or because most people don't like to get into serious relationships. It's difficult to find someone, but there is someone out there for you. Just be confident.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-19 06:22:13 +0000 UTC]

..........Yeah I am very shy! I blame myself

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-19 21:48:01 +0000 UTC]

Well, it's time to break out of that box. Don't hide. Everyone else existing here is just a normal person like you. They're nervous too, even if they don't seem it. We're each just as imperfect as the next person.

Just treat everyone like they're a friend. They're all friends, but some friends you don't know yet.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-24 09:12:54 +0000 UTC]

I know but you know is not easy,and my country is full of Homophobes ):

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-24 21:40:44 +0000 UTC]

Well, I suppose the influence of the Vatican and Roman Catholicism is to be blamed for that. Guess you need to screen people then. But just be comfortable with who you are as a person. Everyone has the right to be proud of who they are. You don't have to scream about it, sometimes confidence is subtle.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-24 21:44:41 +0000 UTC]

I know but is not easy at all for me.You have someone to help you,your friends,your boyfriend.I fight that battle alone,sadly so is not easy you know.

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-24 21:53:21 +0000 UTC]

You have all of us, here. You have an entire world of people willing to help you.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-24 21:56:37 +0000 UTC]

I know but sometimes I want only to sit in a corner and cry...but I can't cry,because I got so much pain.Is an entire year I don't cry.

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-24 22:43:17 +0000 UTC]

Well, there's a reason why you're there in that environment. Try to not let what people say get to you, because that's only their opinion.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-25 07:04:01 +0000 UTC]

I'll try,but is not easy ):

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-26 04:11:34 +0000 UTC]

It will get easier. It always does.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-26 10:03:21 +0000 UTC]

Well not for everyone.Did you heard about gay teen suicide?It is horrible!):

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-28 21:13:48 +0000 UTC]

I hate to be harsh, but they made that choice. They chose to take their own life. They didn't have to... but they gave up. And you can't give in to stuff like that. Yeah, there are a lot of suicides, and that's why we need to do whatever we can to stop this.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-28 21:28:27 +0000 UTC]

I know,but if people continue to hate the others,the human generation will end in some years.Why can't we love the others?

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-29 21:48:15 +0000 UTC]

Because we're imperfect. We can't get along with everyone, although we'd like to. I mean, you don't have to flat-out hate someone either, but without it, how do we learn? It gives us trials to pass through, which help us learn.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-29 21:56:29 +0000 UTC]

True.But I don't have people for religion,gender,skin color etc. maybe this is a bad thing but hey...

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-07-29 22:34:42 +0000 UTC]

I know. Blind hatred is mortifying, but it does cause strength, and it bounds us together sometimes when we fight against it.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-07-30 07:04:45 +0000 UTC]

Wow you're so wise!I am very happy to have a fantastic friend like you not everyone is like you,sadly.Me either.

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-01 02:24:05 +0000 UTC]

Aww, thanks. I'm very glad that we're friends too. No, but there are people out there who are similar.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-01 06:55:29 +0000 UTC]

True,but is not easy to find them D:

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-02 04:26:02 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, you gotta' look hard.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-02 09:07:40 +0000 UTC]

Eh I know.

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-05 23:23:02 +0000 UTC]

You'll find someone.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-06 07:17:45 +0000 UTC]

Right.Just need to try ^^ you are so kind to me!

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-07 04:46:01 +0000 UTC]

Psh. Who wouldn't be kind to you?

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-07 07:23:00 +0000 UTC]

Weeeeeeell........

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-08 00:05:42 +0000 UTC]

Oh come on! If someone doesn't like you then they have no heart!

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-08 07:32:59 +0000 UTC]

Well my classmates for esample or my ex best friend (I never made joke about him and I was his best friend but after I told him to be gay he never came to me again)

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-08 15:57:48 +0000 UTC]

Maybe we should get them a bunch of transplants. For their hearts. So they could have some. You know, you're pry the jewel of that city.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-08 16:31:39 +0000 UTC]

You......are........so............much right!XD they are heartless,they insult me for my face,voice and everything and I sing very good!But they don't take care.

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-10 01:02:24 +0000 UTC]

Don't listen to them. All the stuff they say is just noise. Let it bounce off you, and don't let it get to you. What they say isn't important. And sing your heart out! You're such a beautiful person, don't forget that.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-10 07:15:00 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful person?You're so kind!But why beautiful person?I don't think I did something of special or for make you happy

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-10 15:29:45 +0000 UTC]

You don't have to do anything for me. Just the way you act and who you are makes you a beautiful person.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-10 15:31:01 +0000 UTC]

Ooooooh I want to have a boyfriend like you!But it will be difficult to find someone like you (;

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-11 01:46:26 +0000 UTC]

That's very flattering. Maybe if I were in Italy instead, you'd have a better chance. But don't give up, there's bound to be clones of me somewhere.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-11 07:37:52 +0000 UTC]

I don't think there are clones of you where I live because you are too cute for where I live ^^

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-11 22:30:27 +0000 UTC]

That's adorable. Thank you so much for your kindness. But hey, maybe if I were there things would be a bit more fabulous... but I'm not there so... perhaps you will make things a bit more fabulous instead?

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-12 08:22:30 +0000 UTC]

Well if I find someone like you then yes XD

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-13 02:44:17 +0000 UTC]

Making the world fabulous one city at a time.

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DarkSora01 In reply to DannyFields [2012-08-13 06:44:52 +0000 UTC]

Yeeeeeeeeeh!

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DannyFields In reply to DarkSora01 [2012-08-14 21:44:01 +0000 UTC]

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KibouKumo [2012-06-23 04:20:42 +0000 UTC]

This is good.
My son asked the other day how he was doing but I've been busy with work I haven't had the chance to stay on long enough to find out.
Also it might be a little weird me asking.
Lol
And having a best friend around is very helpful in any situation.

I came out when I was very young.
Hell I wouldn't even call it coming out, it was just something my younger brother pointed out and it was natural and my parents treated it that way.
My uncle on the other hand didn't take it very well and neither did my husbands mother but none of us really care about them anyways.
And both of my children are being raised to be themselves and we'll love them no matter what and to not judge others so quickly.
So far so good but their still young so who knows what will happen between now and then.

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DannyFields In reply to KibouKumo [2012-06-24 04:13:38 +0000 UTC]

No, it's totally okay! Your son is so sweet! I couldn't agree more, having a best friend around just makes everything better. Florian is doing wonderfully. We went to Six Flags and had an absolute BLAST there. He fell asleep on the way home with a little stuffed animal in hand and it was just... adorable.

ANYWAY.... Well I'm glad your mom and dad accepted you. Exactly, if someone can't accept you as you are, then it's their loss. They're limiting themselves. And it's absolutely wonderful that your children are allowed to be themselves and grow up without any of that pain or worry that they might lose their parent's love. They're lucky to have such wonderful parents. Hopefully they'll help to make the world a better place, just as you are by teaching them to accept people as they are.

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KibouKumo In reply to DannyFields [2012-06-24 06:21:04 +0000 UTC]

Thank you.
And he was very glad to hear that.
Also hope that he stays better and if someone tries to bring him down again to become a super hero and defeat the villain that did that.
Lol

Six Flags is so much fun!
Glad he's doing better and that you guys had fun.
And that does sound cute though I am curious, do you like him?
You don't have to answer, just curious.

To be honest I didn't know about parents treating their children differently because of sexuality till years later.
I kept asking and wondering why, still do.
But your right, it's their loss.

Thank you, that means a lot to my husband and I.
:hearts:

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DannyFields In reply to KibouKumo [2012-06-24 06:49:04 +0000 UTC]

That's so cute.

Uh, I actually just posted something that might explain that for you... [link]
Yeah, I do. He's really grown on me, and I absolutely cannot deny the way he makes me feel...

Yeah, it's something to wonder about, I mean, why become parents if you're not going to love your children no matter what?

Aw, no problem!

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KibouKumo In reply to DannyFields [2012-06-25 07:30:10 +0000 UTC]

Yeah.
He's a little comic nerd.
Lol

Wow that was good.
You should tell him.
Never know, he might feel the same.

Exactly.
It makes me sense!
Parents like that drive me insane.

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