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Mine and my wife's lives changed fast.We found out we were gonna be parents when it was about to be our 4-5 month anniversary.After three months we got married,and now it's only month and a half left until our son is born.

And of course we couldn't escape some unnecessary and negative comments about the decisions we made.I never pay attention to them because they won't influence on my life or my mind.I don't even bother to explain those people anything anymore since it's the same as talking to the wall.But I felt like letting my watchers and friends now if you have any doubts or questions.

Most of the time I hear people saying that all we did (pregnancy and marriage) was unplanned.
I understand that it's unusual for a couple of our age to already have a family of their own.But you can't judge everybody.
We both talked about kids and family a lot before planning something.At that moment we lived far apart from each other and could only be together for 2-3 days in a week if not less.We wanted to be with each other every day,and in order to make that happen we had to make our own family.That's how we planned it at first.But we got so tied up to this idea that we forgot it was only part of some kind of plan.We counted those special days when it was possible to get pregnant,and we were upset every time we failed because we wanted that child so much.And then it happened.Imagine how happy and excited we were.Of course we got worried that our lives will change forever,that we'll have to give up a lot of things.But later it didn't even matter,because we were too happy to think about negative stuff.

Some people are sure for some reason that if she wasn't pregnant we would never get married.
We were thinking about the marriage long before she got pregnant.The only thing her new condition has changed was the wedding date.We were expecting it to be in warmer season like spring or summer.
The reasons we got married so soon:
1.We wouldn't have time for the wedding after our son is born.
2.We had to hurry up before her belly stated to get bigger.
3.We wanted Witold to have my surname when he's born.Otherwise we'd have to deal with a lot of paperwork.

Although our wedding wasn't the best one,I have no regrets I'm married to this woman.

And now about the name.I don't understand why people find it weird and..unattractive.You can name your kids whatever you want,but don't think that your opinion matters to me.
Since I loved history since I was little,I decided to give my son a name that has to do something with history of Poland and Lithuania.That's how I thought of name Witold.
For once that keep asking,Witold means someone who leads people,army.
In history,Witold (or Vytautas in lithuanian) was the great ruler of Grand Duchy of Lithuania.He was also one of the leaders of Battle of Grunwald,which is very important moment in our history.
I'm sure my son will be proud that his name has such a big meaning.

I'm done for now.

Description
Mine and my wife's lives changed fast.We found out we were gonna be parents when it was about to be our 4-5 month anniversary.After three months we got married,and now it's only month and a half left until our son is born.

And of course we couldn't escape some unnecessary and negative comments about the decisions we made.I never pay attention to them because they won't influence on my life or my mind.I don't even bother to explain those people anything anymore since it's the same as talking to the wall.But I felt like letting my watchers and friends now if you have any doubts or questions.

Most of the time I hear people saying that all we did (pregnancy and marriage) was unplanned.
I understand that it's unusual for a couple of our age to already have a family of their own.But you can't judge everybody.
We both talked about kids and family a lot before planning something.At that moment we lived far apart from each other and could only be together for 2-3 days in a week if not less.We wanted to be with each other every day,and in order to make that happen we had to make our own family.That's how we planned it at first.But we got so tied up to this idea that we forgot it was only part of some kind of plan.We counted those special days when it was possible to get pregnant,and we were upset every time we failed because we wanted that child so much.And then it happened.Imagine how happy and excited we were.Of course we got worried that our lives will change forever,that we'll have to give up a lot of things.But later it didn't even matter,because we were too happy to think about negative stuff.

Some people are sure for some reason that if she wasn't pregnant we would never get married.
We were thinking about the marriage long before she got pregnant.The only thing her new condition has changed was the wedding date.We were expecting it to be in warmer season like spring or summer.
The reasons we got married so soon:
1.We wouldn't have time for the wedding after our son is born.
2.We had to hurry up before her belly stated to get bigger.
3.We wanted Witold to have my surname when he's born.Otherwise we'd have to deal with a lot of paperwork.

Although our wedding wasn't the best one,I have no regrets I'm married to this woman.

And now about the name.I don't understand why people find it weird and..unattractive.You can name your kids whatever you want,but don't think that your opinion matters to me.
Since I loved history since I was little,I decided to give my son a name that has to do something with history of Poland and Lithuania.That's how I thought of name Witold.
For once that keep asking,Witold means someone who leads people,army.
In history,Witold (or Vytautas in lithuanian) was the great ruler of Grand Duchy of Lithuania.He was also one of the leaders of Battle of Grunwald,which is very important moment in our history.
I'm sure my son will be proud that his name has such a big meaning.

I'm done for now.