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Description SELF HARM



Self-injury (SI) or self-harm (SH) is deliberate injury inflicted by a person upon their own body without suicidal intent. Some scholars use more technical definitions related to specific aspects of this behaviour. These acts may be aimed at relieving otherwise unbearable emotions, sensations of unreality and numbness. The illness is listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR) as a symptom of borderline personality disorder and depressive disorders. It is sometimes associated with mental illness, a history of trauma and abuse including emotional abuse, sexual abuse, eating disorders, or mental traits such as low self-esteem or perfectionism, but a statistical analysis is difficult, as many self-injurers conceal their injuries.

Self harmers are often mistaken as suicidal, but in the majority of cases this is inaccurate. Non-fatal self-harm is common in young people worldwide and due to this prevalence the term self-harm is increasingly used to denote any non-fatal acts of deliberate self-harm, irrespective of the intention.

There are a number of different treatments available for self-injurers which concentrate on either treating the underlying causes or on treating the behaviour itself. When self-injury is associated with depression, antidepressant drugs and treatments may be effective. Alternative approaches involve avoidance techniques, which focus on keeping the self-injurer occupied with other activities, or replacing the act of self-harm with safer methods that do not lead to permanent damage.


Helping yourself

This section is about helping yourself to stop self-harming.
Understanding why you do it

Stopping is easier if you can find other ways of expressing or coping with your feelings. To do this you need to try to understand what makes you do it. Lots of people don't know why they hurt themselves so it may be useful to think about:

* What was going on in your life when you first began to harm yourself
* How you feel just before you want to hurt yourself
* Whether you would find it useful to keep a 'mood' diary, writing down your feelings at different times
* Whether you are always in the same place or with a particular person
* If you have any bad memories or thoughts that you can't tell anyone.

Thinking about other things

When you feel anxious or upset, doing something you enjoy or trying to think about other things can be a way to help you stop hurting yourself. You could try:

* Phoning a friend
* Writing down your feelings in a diary
* Listening to music, drawing or reading
* Going for a walk or a run, dancing, exercising or playing sport
* Counting down slowly from 10 to 0
* Breathing slowly, in through the nose and out through the mouth
* Focusing on objects around you and thinking about what they look, sound, smell, taste and feel like.


If you still want to hurt yourself

If you still want to hurt yourself try:

* Finding a safe punching bag like some pillows
* Putting your hands into a bowl of ice cubes for a short time or rubbing ice on the part of your body you feel like injuring
* Using a red felt tip marker or lipstick to mark your body instead of cutting
* Putting a rubber band around your wrist and flicking it
* Putting sticking plasters on the parts of your body you want to injure.

It can be hard to stop

Self-harm can be really hard to stop. It may take time and there are likely to be ups and downs along the way. Sometimes, however hard you try on your own, you just can't cope with your feelings.

If you can't stop wanting to hurt yourself it's best to get help from someone you can trust. This means finding someone who you can talk to about your problems and who can give you practical help.

> If you do not feel ready to stop self-harming
Harming yourself may have become a way of dealing with your feelings that you find hard to imagine coping without. If this is how you feel, here are some ways to help you look after yourself.


Credits:
This time i want to make this part a little long coz i think the people really deserved it first of all i would like to thanks who has a vision and is an awesome photo manipulator the shadow thing was totally his idea and i think nobody can potray this better then he did.

secound i think backgrounds are really important so i want to thank for this background ....


Rest i did it my self i hope you`ll all appreciate this work


Causes already done

*Rape: [link]

* Homicide: [link]

*Suicide - Murder: [link]

*Cosmetics - Advertisements: [link]


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Comments: 87

mallorylucas [2011-06-06 21:48:51 +0000 UTC]

Thank you.

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ClosetsRain [2010-06-18 11:56:13 +0000 UTC]

My dad told me how i was pathetic, useless and selfish for self harming. He insisted he was the person with my mum to look after me, but he didn't realize he was the person who made me cry.

This is a very powerful image, well done x

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devilmaycryub In reply to ClosetsRain [2010-06-20 02:50:13 +0000 UTC]

Thank you, just wanted to educate people about it

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sofiamargarita [2010-03-04 23:59:35 +0000 UTC]

I used to put a rubber band around my wrist a lot, but the thing that has helped the most is art (: every kind of art including music.
So far,I haven't done it again.

Like someone said before: really good topic (:
I like the picture too.

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devilmaycryub In reply to sofiamargarita [2010-03-10 02:54:54 +0000 UTC]

Thank you, it was just something which was close to my heart

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springchick23 [2009-05-23 22:18:32 +0000 UTC]

Oh my god!!! I have been wanting to do a picute exactly like this one for the longest time. It looks like you got there first though. Good job and thanks for adding this picture it means a lot.

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devilmaycryub In reply to springchick23 [2009-06-10 05:54:40 +0000 UTC]

thanks alot, i have done on other causes as well, you should definitly check them out sorry for the late reply been busy in exams

and thanks for the fav

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springchick23 In reply to devilmaycryub [2009-06-13 04:23:25 +0000 UTC]

will do XD

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devilmaycryub In reply to springchick23 [2009-06-13 07:32:02 +0000 UTC]

thanks alot

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store4ever [2009-02-04 17:56:13 +0000 UTC]

Very clear concepti really didnt knew self harm was that bad until now(i thought what i cant do with others i can do with myself atlest)your words were very meaningful..i will try to keep them in mind in my future.. nice work keep it up!!

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devilmaycryub In reply to store4ever [2009-02-05 10:04:36 +0000 UTC]

awww thanks ... and hey there are millions of way of doing self harm !!

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store4ever In reply to devilmaycryub [2009-02-05 10:08:32 +0000 UTC]

hmm i know but thats what pleases me...but still your words are meaningful..i will remember them

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devilmaycryub In reply to store4ever [2009-02-05 10:15:19 +0000 UTC]

... actually been doing these things alot !! so i also have experience !!!

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ActYos [2009-01-13 05:54:17 +0000 UTC]

i like this concept here ... very good

and the way u explained it ,, only blind cant see it

although the work is not that perfect .. but the concept cover it

very nice..!!

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devilmaycryub In reply to ActYos [2009-01-13 14:17:54 +0000 UTC]

thanks alot ... yeah i know actually i start a work ... then i get bored of it ... so stop doing it lolz ... but my emo work is far more better then my social ones !!

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Soul-Reader [2008-12-16 16:39:14 +0000 UTC]

I'm glad you addressed this issue...I self harm a lot and I think that people need to know more about it

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devilmaycryub In reply to Soul-Reader [2008-12-17 07:29:41 +0000 UTC]

i do the same too ... along with self harm i have added other issues too !!

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Soul-Reader In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-12-17 16:14:11 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, I did see them

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devilmaycryub In reply to Soul-Reader [2008-12-17 19:29:53 +0000 UTC]

thanks for viewing them !!

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Soul-Reader In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-12-17 20:51:35 +0000 UTC]

No problem

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devilmaycryub In reply to Soul-Reader [2008-12-18 07:06:55 +0000 UTC]

!!

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JinnBhai [2008-11-03 05:59:46 +0000 UTC]

That description is too long.

That's the only criticism i could find

BOHAT ala seriously.

Fight club through n through.

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devilmaycryub In reply to JinnBhai [2008-11-03 06:11:26 +0000 UTC]

Hidden by Owner

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JinnBhai In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-11-03 15:33:02 +0000 UTC]

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devilmaycryub In reply to JinnBhai [2008-11-04 04:33:15 +0000 UTC]

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JinnBhai In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-11-04 11:12:31 +0000 UTC]

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devilmaycryub In reply to JinnBhai [2008-11-05 10:07:26 +0000 UTC]

Hidden by Owner

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JinnBhai In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-11-05 13:11:11 +0000 UTC]

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devilmaycryub In reply to JinnBhai [2008-11-06 09:31:48 +0000 UTC]

thanks alot ... haan yaar main us ko bilkul nahi bata raha my condition but she knows ... bohat idiot hai ...


but inshallah she`ll get better ....


and yeah am young (glad to remember that ... that i should be a kid )

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Angelicwhispers [2008-11-03 05:50:58 +0000 UTC]

You have updated it for the 3rd time?:s what have you updated now? :s

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devilmaycryub In reply to Angelicwhispers [2008-11-03 06:10:43 +0000 UTC]

yaar change kiya hai thoda ... log kafi criticize ker rahey thay ... key remove the america wala part ... aur jo uper text likha hua tha ... is liye is ko edit ker diya ... waisey am waiting for your comments on my other deviation can i be an angel ... and pls koi solid criticism kerna thanks

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Angelicwhispers In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-11-03 07:42:04 +0000 UTC]

:s Allright!

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devilmaycryub In reply to Angelicwhispers [2008-11-03 12:59:37 +0000 UTC]

still confused !! hehehe ~!!~

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Angelicwhispers In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-11-03 15:29:32 +0000 UTC]

huh????

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devilmaycryub In reply to Angelicwhispers [2008-11-04 04:28:28 +0000 UTC]

hehe ... chad do ... just tell how's life and work ??

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Digital-Artisans [2008-11-02 23:49:52 +0000 UTC]

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devilmaycryub In reply to Digital-Artisans [2008-11-03 03:05:49 +0000 UTC]

Hidden by Owner

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Digital-Artisans In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-11-05 17:04:25 +0000 UTC]

I didn't say you were, but it might offend other Members, which is why I can't add this one. Besides, we have no way of knowing if someone did get offended, & just didn't comment. I'd rather not get any notes like "You bleep bleep..." Lol! People are crazy sometimes, you just never know what they'll do.

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devilmaycryub In reply to Digital-Artisans [2008-11-06 03:22:05 +0000 UTC]

hehehe ..... yeah but i changed it ... now its looking better i guesss .... hahah ....


thanks anyways ... my deviation submissions are full

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Digital-Artisans In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-11-07 20:48:32 +0000 UTC]

Ahhh. I see it. I like how the background looks all cut up too.

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devilmaycryub In reply to Digital-Artisans [2008-11-08 14:41:36 +0000 UTC]

yeah i added some rough work in it !!

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Tazzy-Tazzle [2008-10-20 08:48:24 +0000 UTC]

This deviation has been featured here [link]

If you don't like it, let me know and I'll remove it

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devilmaycryub In reply to Tazzy-Tazzle [2008-10-20 15:30:50 +0000 UTC]

Thanks alot its an honour being featured by you !! its a gr8 honour !! ....

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Draconian-Princess [2008-10-11 22:00:22 +0000 UTC]

Uhm...yeah...

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devilmaycryub In reply to Draconian-Princess [2008-10-12 03:24:54 +0000 UTC]

!!! ... is it good ??

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Draconian-Princess In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-10-12 06:39:07 +0000 UTC]

It's amazing!

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devilmaycryub In reply to Draconian-Princess [2008-10-12 12:31:39 +0000 UTC]

thanks alot .... but still i think i need to work more coz didn`t get a

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Draconian-Princess In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-10-12 12:49:31 +0000 UTC]

I was in a bit of a hurry, my mom was buggin' me to get off. But I really really like it ^^

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devilmaycryub In reply to Draconian-Princess [2008-10-14 03:52:35 +0000 UTC]

oh so sweet of u ...

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Draconian-Princess In reply to devilmaycryub [2008-10-17 22:44:17 +0000 UTC]

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