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dimruthien — ++ I Have Abandonment Issues

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Description As someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, my abandonment issues rule every facet of my life. However so few people realise what a big deal this is, and how much it affects me and my behaviour.
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ShyGigyas [2015-01-02 05:08:38 +0000 UTC]

This is a stamp I can really relate to :')

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QuirkyCuriousBex [2012-08-14 22:48:42 +0000 UTC]

Same here.

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merclavette [2011-12-06 15:50:28 +0000 UTC]

I started a group for borderline personality, i'd like for you and all who see this to join
It's just a place where you can hang out, submit art, find support or inspiration and you can also vent.
Here's the [link]

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emogothgurl [2011-08-31 04:40:42 +0000 UTC]

It sucks doesn't it!!! you spend almost all your life with people that leave you and then you get so paranoid about people leaving you you can't even make friends!!!! (sigh) thanks for making this, its nice to know some people that understand!

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ihopeth [2010-12-30 06:59:54 +0000 UTC]

thats why i dont like getting close to people. im always afraid of them leaving me.

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StarScarredVixen [2010-07-21 02:46:12 +0000 UTC]

I can really sympathize with this. Thank you for putting this up.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-29 09:58:08 +0000 UTC]

Your icon's hair is eautiful!!

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-29 14:19:43 +0000 UTC]

Thank you very much! I'm glad you like it!

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-29 16:53:53 +0000 UTC]

Of course!! Did you make it yourself??

it moves so perfectly flowy.....

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 01:55:41 +0000 UTC]

I did make it! Took forever to animate. XD

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 01:56:57 +0000 UTC]

I'm sure it did.

I'm super impatient, myself..... x'DD

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 04:19:57 +0000 UTC]

I'm thinking about making another one but, I'm not sure if I can replicate it.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 04:31:57 +0000 UTC]

Hahaha I see~

C:

Yeah, I like animating hair, like my icon~!! C'x

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 05:04:33 +0000 UTC]

Yours is really well done! I'm impressed!

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 05:23:16 +0000 UTC]

Thank you~!! ;D

I like yours better, though, it looks like real hair.

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 05:33:14 +0000 UTC]

It takes a bit to see how hair moves. XD I will admit that.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 05:37:59 +0000 UTC]

I know it, too!! x'DD

Hahaha~!!

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 05:38:26 +0000 UTC]

I'm curious to see if I can try with a braid but, that will take some practice. XD

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 05:42:51 +0000 UTC]

Ooh!!

I'd like to see it.

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 15:31:16 +0000 UTC]

I'll have to try it. XD

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 16:35:45 +0000 UTC]

x'DD

You should~

My current icon wasn't made by me, heheh > w <

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 22:09:11 +0000 UTC]

I need a new icon. XP

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 22:21:30 +0000 UTC]

x'DD

I like yours, though~

Mine used to be a twerking icon I made, but everyone ignored my comments and just replied about my icon.

So it got annoying x'DD

 <-- That's the icon

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 22:22:25 +0000 UTC]

That's hilarious! I've never seen one of those before.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-30 22:26:45 +0000 UTC]

x'DD

Thank you~!!

I had the idea when someone said something and I wanted to make a twerk icon in reply, but I couldn't find one I liked....

> w <

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-30 23:54:22 +0000 UTC]

Good idea to make your own. :3

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 01:21:06 +0000 UTC]

I thought so, too, hehe.

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 01:52:36 +0000 UTC]

Works well to make your own!

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 01:57:50 +0000 UTC]

If you can, that is?

x'DD

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 02:15:29 +0000 UTC]

Too true. XD I haven't tried anything too intricate save the hair flip.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 02:25:19 +0000 UTC]

Save the hair flip??

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 02:44:37 +0000 UTC]

Yeah. The one I have in my current icon.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 03:12:35 +0000 UTC]

OH yeah, yeah I really like it also x'DD

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 13:48:22 +0000 UTC]

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 15:59:10 +0000 UTC]

Oh wow, what should we talk about now??

I don't wanna stop taking to you, I like you.

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 18:01:02 +0000 UTC]

Not sure! But, I'm sure we can find something to talk about. Ready for the new year?

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 18:06:11 +0000 UTC]

OH yes!! I am, I wish I was going somewhere though.... x'DD

You?? C:

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 18:08:48 +0000 UTC]

We're having a party here. It's an annual celebration.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 18:10:46 +0000 UTC]

We usually go to parties, but we're not this year~

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 18:12:44 +0000 UTC]

Aw. I hope it's a fun new years regardless. :3

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 18:20:31 +0000 UTC]

So far it's not so good..

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 18:37:07 +0000 UTC]

Aw...I'm sorry to hear that. :c

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 18:39:36 +0000 UTC]

It's alright.... Just a few let downs one right after the other..

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 18:43:05 +0000 UTC]

Oh my. I hope it gets better. It's so disappointing to end a year on a bad note.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 18:57:13 +0000 UTC]

I agree, but I hope things get better, too. I'm sure it will for my Ex Best Friend....

:/

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2013-12-31 19:47:14 +0000 UTC]

Oh? What happened?

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2013-12-31 19:53:46 +0000 UTC]

It's a lot to explain.... Just some bad things went down between us and she never told me the truth and she never told me if I was hurting her or making her upset, and suddenly she's not wanting to talk to me anymore.

I tried talking to her, but she never answered and suddenly her MUM answered and got involved and her Mum had to tell me what's happening, but her Mum didn't have to get involved if Fluffy just told me she didn't wanna talk anymore.... Like, her Mum said something about me persistently messaging Fluffy, when of course I would when no one even freakin' told me she didn't wanna talk to me anymore!!

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2014-01-01 15:36:42 +0000 UTC]

Aw...I'm sorry. Losing a friendship is really hard.

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Sparky-the-Scraggy In reply to StarScarredVixen [2014-01-01 16:00:27 +0000 UTC]

I know, but it shouldn't be that painful for me.

I never usually let anyone in cause all throughout Middle School I was losing all the friend I've ever made....

That's why I turned to the internet, cause the anonymity would probably make losing friends hurt less.

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StarScarredVixen In reply to Sparky-the-Scraggy [2014-01-01 20:45:12 +0000 UTC]

Pain is pain no matter how unjustifiable it may seem and you have every right to feel that pain.

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