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A bit of a story to this one...Taken on the obvious date in the title, I took it right before work just to post on Facebook. A friend and I had a falling out two days prior and he wanted some space, so I wanted to show him that I wasn't miserable and that I was happy. In truth it was all just a show. I was quite anxious and upset about the whole thing, but I've made the decision to never post updates stating that I am depressed or upset unless its over something small or I'm just being whiny. I really like this photo, but it also carries a personal meaning for me.
In case you were wondering, I'm no longer friends with that person. He got bored of me and moved on without even talking to me ever again.
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electricalst0rm [2012-07-16 02:47:11 +0000 UTC]
I love the picture and I am so sorry about the story behind it...
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Foxtrot44 In reply to electricalst0rm [2012-07-16 14:05:22 +0000 UTC]
Its all good! What doesn't kill you makes you stronger right?
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-16 00:07:07 +0000 UTC]
Did you have a friend pull the same bullshit too?
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-16 00:48:13 +0000 UTC]
Something similar, but time heals everything, whatever the outcome may be ^^. I was the only one trying to make it work. In the end, the way she blew me off, I stopped trying to be her friend. It sucks at first but it sort of opens your eyes in a way. I don't know if its because i feel sorry, or because i understand, or i just see the good in people, but i can't hate her for it. Everyone shares this pain at some point. Did you try talking to him?
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-16 01:17:37 +0000 UTC]
I did. He gave me the silent treatment for over a month. There were some romantic feelings but he became bored with me and moved onto a new girl without even telling me. If he had just talked to me I would have gladly been just friends but I won't shit like that from people. I deleted him off of facebook and he's moving out of my town by August so I'll hopefully never have to see him again.
I'm sorry about your situation though. I'm not sure if I've had a friend just give up on a relationship before. Still sounds very painful.
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-16 01:32:04 +0000 UTC]
Aww wow that's harsh. I don't really have any advice for you. I'm not sure if it's my place to say this or not, but i think you can find a better guy who would treat you right, there's many out there, and i think you did the right thing. And you don't have to be sorry, I feel free from my past and the memories i had with her. It was probably one of the best things that could happen to me though because I wouldn't be able to let go if she hadn't pushed me far enough. It went on for 4 years, so you probably can imagine how liberated i felt when it was officially over xD.
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-16 01:36:53 +0000 UTC]
Yeah I've never been treated like such shit in my life. I know there are many better guys out there. I won't let one ruin the rest. In fact there's a guy that I have my eye on anyways.
Actually now that I think about it your situation with your friend kind of sounds like when my old best friend and I split from each other during our freshmen year of high school. It was very liberating, so I can definitely relate to that feeling.
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-16 02:51:54 +0000 UTC]
LOL omg this is so amusing. That's what happened with my best friend. We split during freshman year too XD. Yeah~ you should go for him :]
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-16 14:32:42 +0000 UTC]
Wow high school is definitely a time for change. xD I might be soon. Its nerve wracking. Its kind of funny because the past 2 people I liked I told them how I felt. I always expected guys to be the ones to admit feelings, not me.
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-17 01:42:00 +0000 UTC]
I so agree with you on that, i sorta expect guys to do that too, but sometimes they need a little push haha.
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-17 22:02:33 +0000 UTC]
I think I've been pretty obvious towards him about my feelings....so either he just doesn't want to ask because he's nervous or he doesn't feel the same way.
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-18 03:42:28 +0000 UTC]
Hmm I'm not sure. I haven't expressed my feelings all too often ^^.. but are you friends with him?
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-18 03:56:54 +0000 UTC]
Yup. We're coworkers too. ^^
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-18 04:01:16 +0000 UTC]
Ahh I see. Yup no advice, unless you want to come straight and tell him. Maybe he's just ultra slow idk .
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-18 04:08:17 +0000 UTC]
He's not slow. I don't know for certain but I'm pretty sure he's cleaver. I might just have to do that and risk it all. -3-
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-18 04:12:43 +0000 UTC]
Like my fortune cookie says, "May you have great luck." ;D
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-18 04:40:40 +0000 UTC]
8D thank you! Who can argue with the wise words of a fortune cookie anyways? ^^ I'll let you know how it goes if you're interested in knowing.
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openreflections In reply to Foxtrot44 [2012-07-18 04:43:55 +0000 UTC]
Sure I don't mind talking w/ ya
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Foxtrot44 In reply to openreflections [2012-07-18 04:56:12 +0000 UTC]
^___^ yay! I'll def keep you updated then.
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