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bobtown In reply to kukuramutta [2016-05-30 17:26:59 +0000 UTC]

Really Sarah? I know this is a comment from about a year ago and I hope you've matured some in the meantime. This comment coming from someone who has/ had her own multiple potentials for eww comments makes no sense to me. (Yes, I looked at all you have posted on DA.) You must know how that sort of comment can hurt, especially on things someone has little or no control over. A pet peeve of yours maybe? I get that. But you could have passed in silence which required no effort at all.

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kukuramutta In reply to bobtown [2016-05-30 19:47:27 +0000 UTC]

sorry I just don't like hairy nipples. not my thing. There are plenty of people that don't like my body there are plenty of people that do. who cares. Obviously there are plenty of people that like hairy nipples. I don't.

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bobtown In reply to kukuramutta [2016-05-30 23:39:19 +0000 UTC]

You completely missed the point but revealed how you really are so...done.

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kukuramutta In reply to bobtown [2016-05-31 13:06:21 +0000 UTC]

we all find different things unattractive. who cares. I don't want to suck on nobodies hairy nipples. that makes me want to gag.

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bobtown In reply to kukuramutta [2016-06-01 01:01:53 +0000 UTC]

I'm glad I don't know you. You're too self-absorbed, self-important and arrogant to figure it out. "Who cares." It says a lot about you. It's sad that you don't care that your words have the potential to hurt others. Your self-entitlement gives you the right to say whatever you want to anyone and "who cares". You damn sure don't. I'm glad I don't know you.

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kukuramutta In reply to bobtown [2016-06-02 20:06:19 +0000 UTC]

And you think your words don't hurt me? aren't you being a hypocrite now by criticizing me and saying I am a horrible person? You don't know me. Most people would say I am a very nice person. We all have our own tastes. Plenty of people have expressed their dissatisfaction with my body for things I can not control. she can control the hair on her nipples by removing it. I don't know too many people that are attracted to thick dark hair on nipples. This pic is beautiful otherwise.

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bobtown In reply to kukuramutta [2016-06-03 01:52:50 +0000 UTC]

Why would it not be fair to answer your question(s), 'And you think your words don't hurt me? aren't you being a hypocrite now' with your own words, who cares? NOT fair because it's about you? When you say 'who cares' it means that YOU don't care about anyone but yourself and what's important to you. It is not hypocritical to point that out about what you yourself have said. Most people would say you're a very nice person?  Ok, but what about the one you only said, ewww to? Are you any better than the people who only said ewww to you about you? Were they nice people? You were given a chance to 'smooth it over', but all you did was to make it worse, citing in detail what YOU don't like about it, and now, 'I don't know too many people'. Of course you don't. But that doesn't mean that there isn't a huge number of people in this world who like something that you don't. Out of how many BILLION people in the world you have how many friends? Even so, the only truly important people who must like it are Joan and her partner. The rest of us don't matter.

Critiquing someone's artistic postings here is not only finding fault, but also offering encouragement and/ or a deserved compliment along with it. You still get to say what you feel, just with bigger words than ewww, or only ewww because xyz. You know how that feels inside so why do it to someone else? Everyone who posts here knows, or should know that not everyone will like everything you do and you can't wear your feelings on your sleeve and survive for long. If you've already gone out of your way to comment on a personal dislike, is it so hard to also find and include a compliment? "This pic is beautiful otherwise." would have made it better and I'm pleased to see you say it now.

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kukuramutta In reply to bobtown [2016-06-06 23:15:57 +0000 UTC]

you are right I am not a good person, I wish I would have died the many times I attempted suicide. Unfortunately I didn't and I know better to do it now because it is very hard to get out of the hole that creates. But there probably is not a day that goes by that I don't wish i were dead. My life has never been good and it probably never will be and I am an abomination that pretends to be happy in a very cruel world.

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bobtown In reply to kukuramutta [2016-06-07 01:18:15 +0000 UTC]

I am NOT right because I never said that you are a bad person. I know the world is a cruel place - we all have our own issues to deal with. I don't know what all your issues are and you don't know mine, so that's fair. I can tell you that what we put out there in the world is what we tend to get back. Cruelty begets cruelty. 'Who cares' is not going to get us much in the way of a nice response which we would prefer to have. I do NOT believe that you are a bad person, but one who made a mistake, but only a mistake, which you have fixed. I used to have a boss who would KICK MY ASS when I made a mistake, and then pat me on the back for some of the good things I had done. I got my ass chewed out big time and ended up liking it. It's the same principal I was trying to share with you. You CAN say what bothers you about an art piece but also give it the compliment that you also see. You obviously have the intelligence and the vocabulary to do both. The hole? I know about the hole, Sarah. As far as I'm concerned, you fixed this. It's done. If you want to talk more, we can. But let's take it private in a NOTE conversation, ok? It's completely up to you.

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