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Published: 2018-07-12 04:18:57 +0000 UTC; Views: 40443; Favourites: 286; Downloads: 85
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EDIT 12/29/2019:I just watched Watts the Safeword's video on Aftercare and really wanted to include a link to it here! They do a great job of going into all these facets. Check it out! Β youtu.be/VB5BZFrDhoU
Hey friends, it's been a while since the last one of these. I wanted to talk about why aftercare is necessary because it's crazy how intense our feelings can get when we try to connect with other people in certain ways, like hanky panky and bdsm. The drawings illustrate some examples of aftercare, although there are as many forms of aftercare as there are people. Maybe your aftercare is super complicated and involves a scented bath and like a million candles. Maybe it's just talking about what you liked and didn't like and watching tv. As long as it meets all participants' needs, it's good aftercare.Β
As always, feel free to discuss your own experiences, anything you want to add, or anything you think I should correct. I'm not an expert, just an interested bdsm nerd.
Panel 1: Halcy owned by Moriwth and Teacup owned by Waltodile
Panel 2: Some characters that may or may not be based on people I know irl
Panel 3: WhiteRavenLord 's persona joined by K-Serenade
Panel 4: Oreo owned by Waltodile with Lacy owned by Moriwth
Panel 5: Some lovely anonymous kinky folk
Panel 6: The wonderful Nacha and Kelly over on Daggerhammer
Speaking of Daggerhammer , Nacha helped me a lot with the content for this comic. In particular, she really made me see how aftercare has a purpose in physical, mental, and emotional health all together. She also has some great journals about the tips and wisdom she's learned as a domme, I highly recommend them.
Here's a sta.sh link if you'd like to view this comic panel-by-panel:
sta.sh/2114eqik4z30
Other BDSM Education comics by Moriwth :
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sexykittyboy [2025-01-23 07:09:42 +0000 UTC]
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Danyd10 [2023-03-13 16:35:48 +0000 UTC]
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thelegoking99 [2021-07-01 21:54:22 +0000 UTC]
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Daniloolinad [2020-01-01 15:38:46 +0000 UTC]
This isnt only helpful, but quite adorable.Β
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Moriwth In reply to Daniloolinad [2020-01-19 01:48:57 +0000 UTC]
A great combination, thank you
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PiccolaVolpe [2019-12-31 02:45:05 +0000 UTC]
This is beautiful and sums up all the points perfectly!!!!
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Moriwth In reply to PiccolaVolpe [2020-01-19 01:48:43 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much, that means a lot!
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Iceburgh69 [2019-12-30 04:21:10 +0000 UTC]
I'm spreading this to every BDSM Discord I'm a part of.
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Moriwth In reply to Iceburgh69 [2019-12-30 04:33:15 +0000 UTC]
Oh, I'm real glad you think it's good!
Credit would be much appreciated
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Iceburgh69 In reply to Moriwth [2019-12-30 05:45:31 +0000 UTC]
I linked to the DA page, so everything'll be there. Both because it's easier, AND fewer copyright issues.
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KindlyCruel [2019-12-30 03:18:32 +0000 UTC]
This is still one of my favorite BDSM anythings ever
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Moriwth In reply to KindlyCruel [2019-12-30 03:19:30 +0000 UTC]
Do you watch Watts the Safeword on YouTube? I've been getting into them lately.
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KindlyCruel In reply to Moriwth [2019-12-30 14:22:08 +0000 UTC]
I don't, but I've heard it's really good! I'll have to check it out sometime.
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Moriwth In reply to KindlyCruel [2020-01-10 01:28:00 +0000 UTC]
Would recommend! They are very cute and cover lots of important topics
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Zelminer [2019-07-06 23:45:16 +0000 UTC]
I really liked this. I feel like another good key point with aftercare is also punishments (if they are present in the scene or relationship). Aftercare is important in general, but the point that it's ESPECIALLY important after punishments should also be made. I'm not sure if there's another one of these on it or not as I just found them. They're really good so far and I love them! Also I'm aware this is a bit late, I haven't been active in a while.
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Moriwth In reply to Zelminer [2019-07-07 15:12:39 +0000 UTC]
That's a really good addition to the conversation! You're right, aftercare is especially needed after any sort of punishment, and taking away aftercare should NEVER be used as a punishment itself.
Glad you are enjoying them, thank you!
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CreepyPastaFangirl06 [2018-12-14 19:03:01 +0000 UTC]
I don't know why, but I don't like being cared for afterwards. (I'm a submissive) it makes me feel weak.
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Moriwth In reply to CreepyPastaFangirl06 [2018-12-14 22:35:36 +0000 UTC]
That's okay! Aftercare doesn't have to be mushy or anything. It's just important to spend some time together after to adjust to a normal headspace and check if either of you need anything.
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CreepyPastaFangirl06 In reply to Moriwth [2018-12-15 17:13:28 +0000 UTC]
Okay but I'm stubborn and I don't listen when my partner says I need something. Like "You need to treat that whelp so it doesn't get infected." And I usually respond with "I don't care, it's fine."
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Moriwth In reply to CreepyPastaFangirl06 [2018-12-17 01:26:46 +0000 UTC]
I don't know then, maybe that's an issue of needing to value your well-being more.
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Caregan [2018-09-17 12:41:42 +0000 UTC]
i'm so far behind on catching up with all the cool stuff people have drawn this summer that i'm only just getting to this now (i've been carefully keeping it in my inbox since like july ^ ^;; )
this is such a lovely piece - i love the variety of couples (you draw them all so cutely!) plus the sensible advice :3
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Moriwth In reply to Caregan [2018-09-17 20:33:32 +0000 UTC]
I understand that feeling! I too have been absent for long periods in the past and have come back to a full inbox. Thank you for saving my work and viewing it when you came back! And welcome back!
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Caregan In reply to Moriwth [2018-09-18 11:44:38 +0000 UTC]
i kinda do a hit and run of trying to catch up on dA once or twice a month (usually over a couple of days so that i have a chance to have conversations which don't take half a year!), but i often end up hanging on to really nice things in my inbox for way longer until i can actually comment on them properly
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Moriwth In reply to Caregan [2018-09-20 19:54:32 +0000 UTC]
I understand that! Well thank you so much for the comments!
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Piouzia [2018-08-17 11:00:06 +0000 UTC]
Awww I was waiting for this ! Your BDSM lessons are always so lovely and true β₯
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Moriwth In reply to Piouzia [2018-08-20 16:32:44 +0000 UTC]
Yay I'm so glad you think so!
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SingingCrystal [2018-08-07 16:58:55 +0000 UTC]
This is so lovely~
Everyone should read it!
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Moriwth In reply to SingingCrystal [2018-08-09 20:37:53 +0000 UTC]
Aww, thank you so much! Thanks for reading it!
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TheGearWork [2018-07-27 18:33:04 +0000 UTC]
These are really not only well put together, but serve a greater purpose, and you should be really proud of creating a safer space for all those involved on what ever end they enter, and helping to create an enviroment of learning and understanding!
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Moriwth In reply to TheGearWork [2018-07-28 03:06:17 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much for this lovely comment!
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Waltodile [2018-07-24 14:17:35 +0000 UTC]
This seriously turned out so good! So much care and attention has clearly gone into it! Lovely stuff (as always, because you're awesome).
And thank you for including Teacup and Oreo! <3
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Moriwth In reply to Waltodile [2018-07-27 16:46:38 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much! Thanks for letting me include Teacup and Oreo, I honestly don't know what I'd do without them.
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IsyldArt [2018-07-14 19:27:54 +0000 UTC]
This is so thoughtful and comprehensive, and then you have all of your wonderful art to go along with it. What a huge project!
This is really informative too Mori, I think it gets the point across in a very positive tone in the writing and imagery! I really like when you post tips and informative pieces, you're a very talented writer as well as artist.
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Moriwth In reply to IsyldArt [2018-07-16 03:22:24 +0000 UTC]
Ahhh thank you, this is a sweet comment and I really appreciate it
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Daggerhammer [2018-07-13 14:47:15 +0000 UTC]
Aw, thanks!Β I'm just glad I could answer some of your questions to your satisfaction.Β Speaking of, I really should do another journal about this topic.Β But after a while I just start to repeat myself, y'know?
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Moriwth In reply to Daggerhammer [2018-07-13 14:49:55 +0000 UTC]
Yeah! I mean, it is a subject that is important to repeat, but I can see how it might be tiring.Β
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Daggerhammer In reply to Moriwth [2018-07-13 14:54:10 +0000 UTC]
Any topic gets tiring unless you're a fanatic or a swindler, as my friend Trevor says.
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Moriwth In reply to Daggerhammer [2018-07-13 14:55:04 +0000 UTC]
haha, wise words from Trevor
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L-W-G [2018-07-13 03:11:56 +0000 UTC]
Cute and very informative, I'll have to fave this one as a reminder.
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