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She was trying her best to call the security before thief leaving office, but he cut the line at last moment. Rubber put more ropes and tapes on her and escaped building. She found desperately moaning and crying by security in morning. When he rips off tapes and help her to put slimy underwear out of her mouth, she immediately calls boss and tell him that his wife knows, and she hired someone to steals her phone and some other company's documents and identities.
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Thanks to the recent Ashley Madison hack and data dump , countless unsuspecting spouses and partners are learning that they’ve been cheated upon by their significant other.
Needless to say, this is a nightmarish experience. Often, more upsetting than the actual cheating is the betrayer’s revealed history of lying and secret-keeping. Essentially, the one person the betrayed partner thought would always be honest and loyal has not been, and this revelation just shatters their relationship trust. In response, the betrayed often find themselves in the midst of an emotional and psychological tornado, spinning from one fear -based thought to another with little to no control—just like any other person in crisis.

In addition to emotional lability (drastic mood swings), common responses include:
Becoming a detective in an attempt to uncover hard evidence—examining computers, phones, wallets, credit card bills, emails, texts, etc.
Obsessing about the betrayal and losing focus on typical everyday activities.
Sleep issues, such as nightmares and/or an inability to fall asleep, stay asleep, or wake up.
Feelings of depression , anxiety , and/or isolation.
Rage , revenge fantasies , and verbal or physical abuse.
Avoiding thinking or talking about the betrayal, by “numbing out” with a compulsive substance (alcohol , drugs, cigarettes) or through behavior (shopping, gambling, eating)—or hoping the problem will simply go away and everything will return to normal.

In general, I find that most betrayed spouses are not looking to divorce —at least not at first. Most often in the immediate aftermath of learning about a betrayal, they are just trying to figure out how to get through the day. This is where crisis counseling techniques—grounding, being in the here and now, mindfulness , and walking through daily life strategies—is most useful to the client, as opposed to trying to understand why the cheating occurred. Usually, the betrayed partner has very basic questions and needs straightforward support.
7 Things You Need to Know If a Partner Betrayed You | Psychology Today
(20-007)

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She was trying her best to call the security before thief leaving office, but he cut the line at last moment. Rubber put more ropes and tapes on her and escaped building. She found desperately moaning and crying by security in morning. When he rips off tapes and help her to put slimy underwear out of her mouth, she immediately calls boss and tell him that his wife knows, and she hired someone to steals her phone and some other company's documents and identities.
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Thanks to the recent Ashley Madison hack and data dump , countless unsuspecting spouses and partners are learning that they’ve been cheated upon by their significant other.
Needless to say, this is a nightmarish experience. Often, more upsetting than the actual cheating is the betrayer’s revealed history of lying and secret-keeping. Essentially, the one person the betrayed partner thought would always be honest and loyal has not been, and this revelation just shatters their relationship trust. In response, the betrayed often find themselves in the midst of an emotional and psychological tornado, spinning from one fear -based thought to another with little to no control—just like any other person in crisis.

In addition to emotional lability (drastic mood swings), common responses include:
Becoming a detective in an attempt to uncover hard evidence—examining computers, phones, wallets, credit card bills, emails, texts, etc.
Obsessing about the betrayal and losing focus on typical everyday activities.
Sleep issues, such as nightmares and/or an inability to fall asleep, stay asleep, or wake up.
Feelings of depression , anxiety , and/or isolation.
Rage , revenge fantasies , and verbal or physical abuse.
Avoiding thinking or talking about the betrayal, by “numbing out” with a compulsive substance (alcohol , drugs, cigarettes) or through behavior (shopping, gambling, eating)—or hoping the problem will simply go away and everything will return to normal.

In general, I find that most betrayed spouses are not looking to divorce —at least not at first. Most often in the immediate aftermath of learning about a betrayal, they are just trying to figure out how to get through the day. This is where crisis counseling techniques—grounding, being in the here and now, mindfulness , and walking through daily life strategies—is most useful to the client, as opposed to trying to understand why the cheating occurred. Usually, the betrayed partner has very basic questions and needs straightforward support.
7 Things You Need to Know If a Partner Betrayed You | Psychology Today
(20-007)