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Published: 2017-05-28 23:06:45 +0000 UTC; Views: 38164; Favourites: 283; Downloads: 0
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As you learn more about yourself, you may change what you identify as. And thatβs perfectly okay. Use the language that feels right for you and that you are comfortable with.Related content
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Never have unrelated some much to a comic
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Sorry that was supposed to be related....stupid autocorrect
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I empathize with that second panel. It's scaring and confusing trying to come to terms with your sexuality. I didn't figure out where exactly on the scale I landed until I was almost twenty seven.
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Yeah, each phase was almost the same for me (learned I was ace at 26). The only difference is that instead of a bi stage I had a sexual curiosity stage where I wanted to know what the fuss was about, but no attraction to back it up
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Took me about 20 more years, but spot on for me too.
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These are the EXACT phases I went through. Seriously, I was 25 when I found out.
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Huzzah.Β Same experience here, except switch panels two and three.
Because life, life is complicated.
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One question....
(Please donβt be offended by my question- Iβm just trying to learn about this topic)
Is it possible to be Asexual, And Pan/Demi-Romantic?
It almost seems like that would be what this comic is describing.
I was looking at this comic and some of the other amazing ones and it made me think of that question π
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Absolutely! Sexual orientation and romantic orientation are independent concepts. So yeah, you can be asexual and demi-panromantic, feeling no sexual attraction but romantic attraction to all genders when a emotional bonding is created. Yeah, I believe the comic gives that message. Don't be afraid to ask! It's great people want to know more about asexuality, and it's okay not to understand all of it at first
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Actually I was at that realization at 18. It helped that I had other friends who were asexual so I was already learning what it was.
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Cannot express how accurate this is for meee <3
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I went straight to age 25 at age 17 
-Taylor
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I jumped right into the Age 17 part and from there (with a very slight scratch on Age 18) to Age 25 XD
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in the worst level even cuddling is not okay xD or feels oddΒ
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Bro I totally feel you on this. Personally I still have feelings of fear cuz I'm not out to my family but I am to a good chunk of my friends. It makes you feel like you're living a lie. Also I'm still questioning about if I'm more demi or more ace cuz I'm not really sure so you listing it too makes me feel a bit better!
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I think anybody in the LGBT community has started off a similar way. As if growing up wasn't hard enough, the struggles that comes with being LGBT make it even harder for us to determine who we are and who we want to be. Good news is, no matter what society tells you, you've got all the time in the world to figure out what your preference is.
I found out I was an Ace about a year and a half ago, when I was 24. I'm sure glad I didn't strive for sex like a lot of other girls seemed to in high school & college; I crave it 100x less now that I'm an adult! XP
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It sure makes you think about who you are and who you change into.
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Don't see why she so sad about being lesbian. But i'm a dude: i cannot understand a woman.
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It has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with having homophobic parents and being terrified of how they will react.
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Didn't think about that. Wait... it was something real? Didn't know it; i should have shut my mouth up
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It was based upon my experience, yes.
Maybe try thinking of women as people instead of some mythical unknowable creature that you'll never understand. If you try to understand, you will. We're just people, dude. Individual people. Not a hive mind.
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Yup i know, the problem is that i'm so strange from the other's point of view, that i don't really understand people in general.
Plus it seem that i'm some kind of egocentric macho.
And thank god if he exist, that we are individual people, it's less boring.
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