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ShellWolf — Never Give Up
Published: 2013-06-17 00:49:50 +0000 UTC; Views: 160; Favourites: 1; Downloads: 0
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Description Love is far too special and rare to ever give up on. When it comes to love, there is no such thing as it being ‘too late’ for anything. Although I admit to feeling/thinking this way on many occasions. I am guilty of giving up on it in the past. As well as with certain friendships and I regret it deeply. Love is far too precious and is worth every risk it presents. It is not worth giving into the fear it presents. If you gave in and gave up, you could be giving up on a lifetime of true happiness for, not only yourself, but also the person you love. I understand if the person has moved on and is in love with another, but that is no reason whatsoever to give up on being a true friend to that person. Yes, don’t push it and risk pushing the person away from you forever, as I once did, but try to move on yourself. Move on to someone else, only when you are ready though. Perhaps you will find that it was well worth the temporary pain and loneliness you felt. It is your choice on whether or not to give up hope completely on that one person though. If you desire to hold that hope deep in your heart, then go for it. Someday, maybe your hopes will materialize into something real. Just because the person you love is with another, does not mean that it will last, that you will never get your chance (or another chance). Time and patience. Nourish them both and you will be rewarded, though not necessarily in the way(s) you expect. That person being with another is also no reason to discard a beautiful friendship that the two of you may share. Nurture that friendship and, regardless of the current situation between the two of you and perhaps it shall become more someday. Whether near or far in the future is irrelevant. What matters is if and when it happens and what you do with the time you are given with each other. Even if you screw up royally and believe you pushed the person away forever, unless you know for sure, you need never fully give up the HOPE that you can make amends. That you can prove to the person your love for them and earn their trust back if possible. Show in small ways that you are willing to do what it takes to move on from the past and create a new, strong future that is more than worth the challenges you will definitely face over time. It will be incredibly difficult and likely very confusing for the both of you, but if you each wish for a friendship still, after however much time, however many hardships, then it is worth fighting through the uneasiness, sadness, doubt and possibly even anger that you will encounter. Try as best as you are capable. Don’t let your fears of being hurt overcome you. You are stronger than your fears. You only need to work through them. Talk to your friends, your family. Ask them for advice. Don’t be afraid to confess your feelings to them. Perhaps they will be able to help you through it all.
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