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This is my particular list of 100 factsIt took me a bit of time to complete, but I had fun, so whatever lol
If you wanna do it too, here's the blank form: [link]
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neonrainbowneko-chan [2011-11-22 08:26:35 +0000 UTC]
its sorta creepy how many of these apply to me xD
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SinsofMidnight In reply to neonrainbowneko-chan [2011-11-22 20:09:25 +0000 UTC]
Oh, it's all cool, lol. We can be strange together
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chess411 [2011-09-19 18:32:49 +0000 UTC]
*stalkstalkstalk*
Very interesting indeed. I like how you did a compare/contrast sort of thing with two boxes, like "I'm totally straight" ... "but only females find me attractive". I agree with so many of these, you're a fascinating person.
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SinsofMidnight In reply to chess411 [2011-09-19 18:57:41 +0000 UTC]
Well, I do believe I exaggerated, but honestly, I'd never even been hit on or romanced until my junior year of high school, and late in it at that!
I'm glad I'm interesting, lol
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chess411 In reply to SinsofMidnight [2011-09-20 05:43:45 +0000 UTC]
I kind of sort of had "relationships" with two females in highschool but they never wanted to be open about it because they were uncomfortable with their sexuality. It was early 20's before I was ever taken on a date. Yeah, I may have had a sex life, never really had much of a romance life until later. It doesn't necessarily reflect on one's "desirability", I would say, rather, I learned people were just fucking scared of me for how I looked. Maybe you just have a 'serious' air about you.... Im rambling.
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SinsofMidnight In reply to chess411 [2011-09-20 14:47:33 +0000 UTC]
My sister was very openly gay in high school -well, more bi, but... small town...
And I think it's a lot of people thought I was gay, just because my older sister was bi... I know, it makes no sense, but that's why I'm such an advocate for education about sexuality: it's not contagious and it's not hereditary!
I'm a pretty serious person, and some people assume I'm straight-laced... Plus, there weren't very interesting guys in my high school... except for like two of them,
But honestly, sometimes with the way I talk and write, people think I'm over-sexed, too...
...I like rambling...
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chess411 In reply to SinsofMidnight [2011-09-20 17:14:05 +0000 UTC]
Hahahaa, sometimes I wish gay was contagious. XD
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SinsofMidnight In reply to chess411 [2011-09-20 17:27:50 +0000 UTC]
I just wish people didn't think it was...
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chess411 In reply to SinsofMidnight [2011-09-21 06:27:23 +0000 UTC]
True, sorry, I joke about serious things too much because it makes it easier to think about for me.
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SinsofMidnight In reply to chess411 [2011-09-21 14:41:59 +0000 UTC]
Honestly, lol, I don't care if it actually was, I just want everyone else to think otherwise
Some of the anti-gay stuff is just dumb.
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chess411 In reply to SinsofMidnight [2011-09-21 18:05:31 +0000 UTC]
Gods, I know, I hate the slippery slope arguments that letting people be openly gay would lead to bestiality and pedophilia.... really guys, really?!
And the arguments that it destroys families, like drunk dads and cheating parents and abusive siblings doesn't? Please.
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SinsofMidnight In reply to chess411 [2011-09-21 18:49:24 +0000 UTC]
It can kinda drive a wedge, at some points, but my sister is bisexual: I still love her and I still tell her everything.
People are just making up excuses for things they don't understand...
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chess411 In reply to SinsofMidnight [2011-09-22 05:57:15 +0000 UTC]
I know I'm very fortunate to have found a guy that understands that side of me and lets me pursue outside interests. I hope it never drives a wedge between us. But I've always separated sex and emotions and I'm learning that he doesn't. I honestly don't really understand straight or gay people, the human body is just so interesting....
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SinsofMidnight In reply to chess411 [2011-09-22 13:01:34 +0000 UTC]
It's actually built into guy's brains that way --none of them can separate it, no matter what lie they sell you.
I look at everyone and I can see beauty, but I'm not bi. Emotionally scarred as a small child, lol.
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chess411 In reply to SinsofMidnight [2011-09-23 06:06:28 +0000 UTC]
Actually, a lot of scientific, psychological type material that I read points to the conclusion that men tend to separate sex and emotions whereas it goes hand in hand for women (different brain physiology and chemical reactions). I do believe this to be true to an extent (obviously me and Nick are reversed). Women always want to know you and like you before they hop in bed with you. Men are much easier to seduce into casual sex. I think I tend to be built mentally more like a male. Emotions actually hinder sex sometimes for me. It's interesting to look at cheating in monogamous relations in this light. Women often cheat because they do not feel emotionally validated, they do not feel wanted and appreciated. Men tend to cheat to fulfill various carnal needs and desires. And men cheat more often, they say "It didn't mean anything", and it really doesn't. But women usually don't understand that because they don't feel it. You don't have to like someone to have sex with them, and you can be perfectly mentally faithful to one person while physically you play around.
I think that a lot of childhood has to do with my difficulty in forming emotional bonds and expressing myself. But I'm working on it.
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SinsofMidnight In reply to chess411 [2011-09-23 15:13:39 +0000 UTC]
See, I have a more masculine mentality, but I also see the value attached to screwing around... Am I weird? XD
I know a guy who's more likely to actually use cheating to mean something, too...
Their generalizations are so weird!
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chess411 In reply to SinsofMidnight [2011-09-23 19:33:49 +0000 UTC]
Personally, I don't believe in monogamy, I think it's unfair for two people to be expected to completely and utterly fulfill each others desires, it's unrealistic. But I guess some people, mentally, can't separate sex and attachment so that doesn't work for them, I'm just now realizing this though...
Yeah, generalizations don't apply to everyone but it's can be helpful to try and grasp a broader concept and then look at where it does and does not apply .
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SinsofMidnight In reply to Emo-vampiress [2011-03-16 03:45:03 +0000 UTC]
lol I said sarcastic twice, dear. I checked
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SinsofMidnight In reply to PhxDown [2010-10-12 11:30:27 +0000 UTC]
Ooo! Tell me which ones!
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