JimSonofSil In reply to Electroman900 [2018-06-10 18:56:10 +0000 UTC]

Are you willing to get help from professionals?

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Electroman900 In reply to JimSonofSil [2018-06-10 20:02:30 +0000 UTC]

I do. Actually I did, but they says like: "Many things that makes you depressed is so easy to deal with".

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JimSonofSil In reply to Electroman900 [2018-06-11 15:38:52 +0000 UTC]

"Easy" is a term I wouldn't recommend using towards someone who is suffering from depression. 
It might seem easy to one person, sure, but to the other it might just be the biggest deal there is. 
Perhaps you can find someone else to speak to about this, someone who understands the seriousness of this mental illness

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lulubaby12345 In reply to BiscuitG0thCat [2016-12-14 15:21:22 +0000 UTC]

Please don't say that, I'll be your friend! You're not weird, you're simply unique! And everyone is beautiful on the inside, no matter what they look like on the outside.

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SophiaJaeger In reply to dvcomk [2016-10-26 12:20:35 +0000 UTC]

First Of All, bad grammar. Second, You have obviously never had it. It's a living hell. How dare you say it's not real and just an excuse.

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dvcomk In reply to SophiaJaeger [2016-10-26 14:50:49 +0000 UTC]

First of all, claim bad grammar is argument of kids discussing to "own" the discussion, not to find the light of the reason.
Seccond, yes I had, how can you say it's clinical at the same time say it is obvious someone hadn't it just examinating the person by 1 line text? (stupid)
And yes... you are responsible for yourself, so get better and succeed inside you is your first task in your life! If you fail, world won't stop because of you.. Maybe one or another will cry on the day you suicide, after a week you will be forgoten.
Accept that. (This is my way of treat friends... i don't cuddle people to make them suffer.. I kick they ass to make them happier, but you choose what you want, whore attention to hang on others shoulders or grown up to support others.)

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SophiaJaeger In reply to dvcomk [2016-10-26 22:10:17 +0000 UTC]

Well, I guess we all have our different personalities. Even though I'll say that it's a mental illness and yeah, human comfort helps. I'm just not that tough. And after a week I'll be forgotten? I have a family that cares about me. That is just incredibly rude. 

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dvcomk In reply to SophiaJaeger [2016-10-27 16:59:55 +0000 UTC]

But do YOU care about your family to be a engine that moves it farward instead of being a stone to they hang along the way?

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SophiaJaeger In reply to dvcomk [2016-10-28 02:58:34 +0000 UTC]

Can you stop being so fucking hurtful? I'm not a "stone." I was born with a mental illness and (wow) it's real, whether you think it is or not. 

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dvcomk In reply to SophiaJaeger [2016-11-01 04:25:30 +0000 UTC]

ok, but does it have a solution or you will use it for whore attention all your life making people being used for you hang on them?
Hey.. in the school you learned i had been teacher, ok?

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SophiaJaeger In reply to dvcomk [2016-11-02 02:42:55 +0000 UTC]

I'm trying to find a solution! I'm taking anti depressants and exercising. But in the end, I do have depression. And I can promise you that it is NOT an excuse to "be a stone" or "whore attention". It is a REAL mental illness. Not an excuse for anything. So please, whenever you finally process that, be respectful. 

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dvcomk In reply to SophiaJaeger [2016-11-03 05:55:50 +0000 UTC]

So here go you some advice...
I use to be quite bad... and there was nothing that could me get better.. for years.
I use to have people around me to makes me distract from my life.. but as soon as I got alone it was terrible, grey and sad.
But I am a man... and I need to go ahead.
One day.. i was living alone and it would have football on the tv, live.. and I was preparing some thing for eating during the game and some beer... 
then i sat on the sofa and I turned off the mobile for nobody distract me..........
o.O
what did I do?
Yes... I was fully well by myself, without anyone... That was one of the best nights of my life and I really enjoyed to be there alone.
Then I start to search what was different and what was making me feel good.
(well .. it don't work for others maybe... each one has it's specific things i think)
I CAN'T LIVE IN A PLACE WITHOUT TREES........
Too much sun makes me feel very depressed.
As soon as sun light get my eyes the day turns meaningless... so, my house need to be dark, and cold (hard to do that in Brazil by the way)
I am a winter autumn person.. I don't deal good with too much sunlight and dry weather. (it may be hot, but not dry)
So .. all that bad feeling was coming from things outside myself, from the environment and it makes a lot of sense. People are like water, that shape themselves according to the environment they are.
There is no "MYSELF", but "myself in one place" and "myself in other place".. I'm not always the same...
From them on.. my life changed completely and then I didn't need to be with ANYONE but i was able to choose who would be inside my life, and this changed everything.
But, for this to happen, I had to follow my life, stop complaining with people and foccus in what I have to do to keep life possible, work, pay my bills, make myself usefull for others, don't be selfish, be a good person (who could stand live being bad person???? or fake!!!!)
So that's my advice...
Notice... things outside you are so powerful.. they can change the chemicals inside  your brain..
Here goes you an example..
Tells somene something disgusting and this person will stop to wish have a dinner.
Show a man a picture of a woman and his dick will become harder and bigger
Tell a woman his boyfriend betrayed her and she will become sad and will cry.
So... all those information can change and create chemicals inside your brain without the need of a medicine or a pill.
(We have a speech here, that the best VIAGRA is to hire a 17 years old hot maid who dress a short dress)
DEPRESSION IS CHEMICAL yes.. but you can have this chemical you need just giving to your brain the right information and your brain creates it by itself, it's the best way.
So.. easily speaking.. Try to do what you likes to do.. something that gives you pleasure even when you are alone.
For me, it was be among the trees, shade, no sun, low light... and my brain had produced so much good feeling that I tell you I am the most happy and positive person you can find.
Try to find your way.
It took me so long to write this all, so don't waste, maybe no one will ever tell you this again because it's not scientific, but personal experience. (by the way science would just tell you to go to a doctor, PAY, then receive a direction to by a pill and PAY again, but you can do this for free by yourself, just stop hanging on people's shoulder and lead your life as an adult, to start).
Bye

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SophiaJaeger In reply to dvcomk [2016-11-03 22:07:13 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for your advice. I admire that you've found happiness. I will try my best to do the same.

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dvcomk In reply to SophiaJaeger [2016-11-06 02:36:49 +0000 UTC]

From the deep of my heart, I wish you become a succeful person with happiness..
But remamber, evil is one of the most complex gift god gave to humanity, without evil nothing would make sense.. without something to fighting for life would be not black or white or colour, but grey and meaningless.
Count on me if you ever want to talk of other things like share with me how is it the place you live, tv shows you like and things like that.

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SophiaJaeger In reply to dvcomk [2016-11-06 17:10:21 +0000 UTC]

Okay, thank you

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Dinolil1 In reply to UnderTaLEAndWheChair [2016-05-14 07:53:38 +0000 UTC]

Be polite. Some people suffer from Depression, and its not polite to say that.

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